Answers to tough questions & scenarios that you may encounter

What if the first abortion pill has been taken?

Please visit reverseabortionpill.com or call 855-209-4848. It is not too late to try to save the baby!! 

Ah, LORD GOD! It is YOU Who have made the heavens and the earth by YOUR Great Power and by YOUR Outstretched Arm! Nothing is too hard for YOU. -Jeremiah 32:17

For with GOD nothing (is or ever) shall be impossible. -Luke 1:37

What is the position of the American Association of Pro-Life Obstetricians and Gynecologists (AAPLOG) on “Abortion to Save the Life of the Mother”?

“As experienced practitioners and researchers in Obstetrics and Gynecology, we affirm that direct abortion is not medically necessary to save the life of a woman. We uphold that there is a fundamental difference between abortion and necessary medical treatments that are carried out to save the life of the mother, even if such treatments results in the loss of life of her unborn child. We confirm that the prohibition of abortion does not affect, in any way, the availability of optimal care to pregnant women.

[There is no medical comparison between abortion (intentional embryocide, intentional feticide)  and separating a mother and her child] for the purposes of saving a mother’s life (preterm parturition). There are times when separating the mother and her unborn child is necessary to save the life of the mother, even if the unborn child is too premature to live. In those tragic cases, if possible, the life of the baby will be attempted to be preserved, and if not possible, the body of the unborn child is treated with respect, recognizing the humanity of the life which is lost in the separation. In contrast…the focus of the abortion procedure is on ending the life of the child, and the purpose of the abortion is to ensure the death of the [pre viable or viable child.   Induced abortion/intentional feticide by labor induction, that is the deliberate killing of an unborn child prior to or at the time of separating that child from the mother], is never necessary to save the life or preserve the health of any woman.” [bracketed content adapted from AAPLOG by Anna Del Duca does not change inherent meaning/AD]

https://aaplog.org/premature-delivery-is-not-induced-abortion

“…Abortion is the purposeful killing of the unborn in the termination of a pregnancy. AAPLOG opposes abortion. When extreme medical emergencies that threaten the life of the mother arise (chorioamnionitis or HELLP syndrome could be examples), AAPLOG believes in “treatment to save the mother’s life,” including premature delivery if that is indicated — obviously with the patient’s informed consent. This is NOT “abortion to save the mother’s life.” We are treating two patients, the mother and the baby, and every reasonable attempt to save the baby’s life would also be a part of our medical intervention. We acknowledge that, in some such instances, the baby would be too premature to survive.”

https://aaplog.org/what-is-aaplogs-position-on-abortion-to-save-the-life-of-the-mother

What is the position of The American College of Pediatricians related to abortion?

Please visit  acpeds.org for details.  The American College of Pediatricians affirm with complete certainty that “-at the moment of fertilization, a new living distinct and whole human being comes into existence.” Their mission includes “enabling all children to reach their optimal physical and emotional health and well being.” 

How do you respond Biblically to a person facing abandonment and infidelity?

-GOD says HE will never leave us or forsake us:

For I, The LORD your GOD, hold your right hand; it is I who say to you, “Fear not, I AM The ONE WHO HELPS YOU.” -Isaiah 41:13

Let your conduct be without covetousness; be content with such things as you have. For HE Himself has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” -Hebrews 13:5

GOD will always take care of us:

When my father and my mother forsake me, Then The LORD will take care of me. -Psalm 27:10-11

GOD is our FATHER:

A FATHER of The FATHERLESS, a DEFENDER of WIDOWS, is GOD in HIS Holy Habitation. -Psalm 68:5


Please let this precious person know that she or he is absolutely and unconditionally loved by GOD, even beyond our imagination!  Additionally, we are to reassure that GOD will help us when we ask HIM, no matter the circumstance, and that HE will powerfully navigate through any diagnosis, challenge or difficulty.  GOD is LIFE and LOVE and HE Will always lovingly command us to choose life for our children, because HE knows that it is in our very best interest.  Demonstrate GOD’S sacrificial Love, and ask kindly if you may pray on his or her behalf, further letting them know that you will continue to pray moving forward. Ask if these parents are in need of support and/or assistance whenever possible. Recommend an Embrace Grace or Embrace Legacy program, a pregnancy crisis center or other helpful resources, such as housing. Talk with them about JESUS, determining whether they have received HIM as SAVIOR and LORD. If possible, refer to a local church for additional assistance. Our FATHER will intervene! HE is our HEALER, PROVIDER, STRENGTH and PEACE! Allow The HOLY SPIRIT to guide your words. “Consequently, HE (JESUS) is able to save to the uttermost those who draw near to GOD through HIM, since HE always lives to make intercession for them.” -Hebrews 7:25


Sample Prayer: JESUS, YOU are our Most Compassionate INTERCESSOR LORD and it is our great privilege to come to you in prayer. We do with thanksgiving for all things LORD, knowing that without YOU, we have nothing. Thank YOU forever JESUS for YOUR Sacrifice and our Gift of eternal life! Please help _______ in this situation, like only YOU can! Fill and guide her/him always with Your PRESENCE LORD! Grant she/he seek YOU first in every situation, knowing LORD that each concern will be addressed and resolved by YOU and through YOU alone! Bless and deliver _______ from every evil and may only YOUR Will be done in ______ life. LORD, as YOU command us, we bless those who have hurt us and pray that they too will be delivered from every evil. We thank YOU with privilege knowing that YOU are always with us and promise to care for us always! Help us JESUS to have greatest faith and surrender every concern to you, knowing that you will do exceedingly, abundantly beyond all that we can ask or think! Grant LORD us wisdom always, and that our eyes are fixed on YOU! Impart YOUR Strength LORD, fill us with YOUR Joy and LOVE and bind YOUR Kindness and Truthfulness around our necks! We revere YOU LORD and declare highest praise to YOU, all glory and honor are YOURS alone! We pray every word in JESUS’ most Powerful, Most Intimate NAME, with all of our love and faith, amen!

Is it possible to encourage a woman who was raped?

For your MAKER is your HUSBAND, The LORD of HOSTS is HIS NAME; and The HOLY ONE of ISRAEL is your REDEEMER; the GOD of The WHOLE EARTH HE is called. -Isaiah 54:5

I WILL betroth you to ME forever. I WILL betroth you to ME in righteousness and in justice, in steadfast love and in mercy. -Hosea 2:19

But as for you, you meant evil against me; but GOD meant it for good, in order to bring it about as it is this day, to save many people alive. -Genesis 50:20

Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men. Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,” says The LORD. Therefore “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him a drink; for in so doing you will heap coals of fire on his head.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. -Romans 12:17-21

Yes! The Love of GOD that speaks through you will bring comfort to this person. Undoubtedly, rape is a most grievous, evil, violent, and brutally criminal, physical, and sexual attack against a person’s physical body, mind and spirit, a violation of one’s dignity and human rights. Similarly, abortion is the deliberate killing of a defenseless and voiceless preborn life, completely disregarding each child’s inherent right to life, dignity and basic human rights. Deceiving a mother to choose abortion after rape will precipitate multiple spiritual traumas and very difficult obstacles in her life. The child that she carries is a Child of GOD and numerous resources are available to offer spiritual and tangible assistance. [See the Life Institute (Conceived in Rape, website below), Radiance Foundation, and Pregnancy Centers: Bethany Christian Services, Angels Place, Birthright of Pittsburgh, etc.]

Fervently seek permission to pray with her and allow The HOLY SPIRIT to guide your words!  Provide love, 24/7 prayer lines, presence, and compassion. Cover this woman literally with The Healing, Delivering, Miraculous, and Saving BLOOD of JESUS!  https://thelifeinstitute.net/learning-centre/abortion-effects/children/conceived-in-rape is an encouraging and life changing resource, abounding in editorials with beautiful children and their courageous mothers who conceived them in rape! Ensure her the power of GOD’S salvation! Teach and encourage this person to read the cleansing WORD of GOD and pray daily. Ask how you can continue to best bless this person and assure them of your ongoing intercessory prayers. Express that The HOLY SPIRIT is our Most Wonderful COUNSELOR and Great COMFORTER! If possible, refer her to a local church and give a salvation/resource card. Refer her to in person or zoom Christian counseling and assure her of your continued prayers.  https://christiancounselingwpa.com

Sample Prayer: JESUS, Help ______! 

YOUR WORD affirms that this is YOUR Child LORD!! Thank YOU LORD for YOUR PRESENCE, strength, encouragement, power and peace within _______ right now LORD! Deliver her: spirit, mind and body JESUS from every trauma, anguish and issue! We thank and praise YOU LORD that even when we do not understand, YOU promise to work all things together for our good and that this life within _______ is created with purpose and will be a powerful testimony and blessing of YOUR Miraculous Goodness!

JESUS, completely cleanse ________ with YOUR PRICELESS BLOOD and LIVING WATER! Set YOUR Guard over her spirit, heart and mind from this moment and for all time! Bind YOUR Kindness and Truthfulness around her neck, in JESUS’ NAME! Demolish for her every argument and pretense that sets itself up against the knowledge of YOU LORD, and take captive every thought for her, making them obedient to YOU GOD! JESUS rebuke every demonic assignment and ungodly power against this daughter today and forever LORD! Make her way straight, bless her on every account as well as YOUR most beloved child within her! Heal this daughter beyond all that we can ask or think exponentially and forevermore and grant that she have no anger or unforgiveness in her heart LORD, only Your LOVE which surpasses all knowledge! Fill her HOLY SPIRIT, so that all who encounter her LORD will indeed encounter YOUR Radiance, Wisdom, Health and Prosperity in every area of her life always! YOUR Beautiful Will be done in her life and in the life of this most precious child, YOUR Child, today and forever, in JESUS’ All Interceding, Compassionate, Loving and Unlimited NAME, we pray, amen!! 

What if someone needs healing from abortion?

HE heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. -Psalm 147:3

HE sent HIS WORD and healed them, and delivered them from their destructions. -Psalm 107:20

O LORD my GOD, I cried out to YOU, and YOU healed me. -Psalm 30:2

But JESUS looked at them and said to them, “With men this is impossible, but with GOD all things are possible.” -Matthew 19:26

The next day he (John) saw JESUS coming toward him, and said, “Behold, the LAMB of GOD, who takes away the sin of the world!” -John 1:29 (including the sin of abortion/killing, no matter how many times)

We are made right with GOD by placing our faith in JESUS CHRIST. And this is true for everyone who believes, no matter who we are. -Romans 3:22 (or what we have done)

Share the LOVE, Unmerited Forgiveness, and Compassionate Healing Authority of JESUS, Our MESSIAH and SAVIOR! Make every effort to pray with him/her as The HOLY SPIRIT leads. Provide resource information for healing (Surrendering the Secret video series, New Life Options (counseling), Christian Counseling Associates, and 24/7 Prayerlines). Kindly, refer for assistance to HEALING on this website.

Sample Prayer: JESUS, Our All Merciful SAVIOR, REDEEMER, MESSIAH and INTERCESSOR,

Thank you forever JESUS for the privilege of YOUR All Sacrificing LOVE and YOUR power to forgive every sin that we humbly ask of YOU LORD with hearts most repentant. LORD we do ask for YOUR compassionate forgiveness for our sin of abortion, and we thank YOU JESUS, fully acknowledging and receiving this Priceless Gift of YOUR complete forgiveness and YOUR cleansing sanctification and washing! JESUS rebuke every demonic assignment against ____________ and destroy them forever in YOUR NAME, we pray! Loose YOUR HOLY SPIRIT of COUNSEL, MIGHT, KNOWLEDGE, and UNDERSTANDING LORD on behalf of __________!  Sprinkle __________ this day and perpetually LORD with Your All Cleansing, Protective, All Powerful BLOOD and we thank YOU with all that we are! Deliver __________ from every traumatic and demonic evil against them JESUS, and bless her/him with Your Peace, Hope, Faith, and HOLY SPIRIT GOD! Ensure LORD that ________ always seeks first YOU and YOUR Kingdom, loves YOU above all, with all that they are forever, and loves all others with the supernatural compassion and forgiveness that YOU love us with JESUS! Allow no anger or unforgiveness in his/her heart toward anyone, including himself/herself, in JESUS’ NAME! Keep _________ forever filled with YOUR Wisdom and Blessing: correctable, meek, humble, grateful, kind, patient, whole, restored, delivered, healed, and protected, in JESUS’ NAME!! We give YOU LORD all of our endless thanksgiving for YOUR life giving forgiveness, deliverance, healing, restoration and protection GOD! We thank YOU for l e a d i n g us forever HOLY SPIRIT so that we abide in YOU always, and YOU in us, and hold YOUR Hand, our LORD! JESUS grant that nothing would hold __________ back from reaching YOUR Most Intimate and Most Prosperous Potential! We exalt YOU JESUS, we adore YOU GOD, we bless YOU LORD, we worship YOU our All Holy, All Righteous, All Victorious, All Capable FATHER, JESUS, and HOLY SPIRIT, and we pray in YOUR NAME JESUS, Our GOD of All Compassion, Unlimited LOVE and Mercy, with all of our gratitude, love, sincerity and faith forever, AMEN!! AMEN!!


How do I witness CHRIST?

For GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS Only Begotten SON, that whoever believes in HIM should not perish but have everlasting life. -John 3:16

…that if you confess with your mouth The LORD JESUS and believe in your heart that GOD has raised HIM from the dead, you will be saved. -Romans 10:9


Tell them that GOD loves them unconditionally, that HE sent HIS SON, JESUS to die for all and that JESUS loves them more than they can ask or imagine and has the best, pleasing and perfect plan for their lives! Share your testimony and/or what GOD has done in your life! Express that they only need to ask forgiveness for their sins and receive JESUS as their LORD and SAVIOR to be saved. Teach them that our LORD desires closeness to us, intimacy and relationship so that we surrender to and follow The HOLY SPIRIT at all times. Provide them with a salvation/resource card and if they are willing, pray together with them to receive JESUS. Refer them to a local church when possible. 


Sample Salvation Prayer: All Powerful FATHER, I believe in my heart that YOU sent JESUS to this world to pay for the consequences of my sins and the sins of the world by dying on my behalf and on behalf of every person.  I believe that YOU raised JESUS from the dead. I confess with my mouth right now that JESUS is and will always be LORD of my life. Forgive me for the sins of my past and I thank YOU JESUS forever for giving me the priceless gift of eternal life with YOU in heaven! I choose to submit to and follow YOU all the days of my life, in YOUR NAME, JESUS, I pray. AMEN!!*

*Salvation prayer adapted from LFCC Global, WA

Is there assistance for persons with financial needs?

And my GOD shall supply all your need according to HIS Riches in Glory by CHRIST JESUS. -Philippians 4:19

But seek first the Kingdom of GOD and HIS Righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. -Matthew 6:33

Yes, yes and yes! If you are in need of help visit:  https://rsdi.org/eg/

Help in every way possible. If in, or around Greater Pittsburgh, refer to “Embrace Essentials Parent Resources” (link above). Otherwise, if she or he is in need of support and/or assistance, recommend a pregnancy crisis center or  https://letthemlive.orgShare with them the Hope of eternal life through JESUS, and if possible, refer a local church and give a salvation/resource card (for print copies are available under RESOURCES). Make every effort to pray with much love, as HOLY SPIRIT leads you. Assure them of your continued fervent prayers for their needs.

How can I show GOD’S love to abortion facility staff?

“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another.” -JESUS, John 13:34

“I say to you that likewise there will be more joy in Heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine just persons who need no repentance.” – JESUS, Luke 15:7

For GOD did not send HIS SON into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through HIM. -John 3:17

Love every person unconditionally, as GOD has loved us!  Let no unkind word come out of your mouth. Demonstrate by example. Share JESUS with them. Ask if you may pray with them as The HOLY SPIRIT leads you and assure them of your continued prayers. Lead them to give their hearts to JESUS!

If conversation permits, let them know there is very prompt and substantial financial help available for all who choose to permanently leave his or her position and all comparable positions! 

For further assistance related to healing and support please refer to  abortionworker.com 

How should I prepare? What should I bring with me?

Put on LOVE, kindness, goodness, gentleness, self control, long suffering, patience, peace and even the JOY of The LORD! When possible, please bring a portable speaker and play worship music, if vocalists or musicians are not present. Create a sign (white board available at Walmart and ideas under RESOURCES) or download and print a sign at Office Depot, online, etc. (printable signs available under RESOURCES). Print out the salvation/resource cards which contain 24/7 prayerlines, information related to: pregnancy centers, abortion healing, pro-life OB-GYNs, salvation, website information, etc. (Office Depot ~$26 for 500 double sided cards) available under RESOURCES.